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You are the ONE you're looking for!
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I
knew I was with my soulmate, when I saw myself
looking back through his eyes. I found my soulmate
by first finding myself… Soulmate love far surpasses
chemical attraction; it overcomes all duality, role
playing, ego, pride and superficiality and
reflects back to you your own inner beauty and truth.
If you haven’t already found your soulmate, you can
find a person committed to loving and accepting you
for who you really are, without condition, by first
learning to love and accept yourself in this way.
Give to yourself and others that which you wish to
receive. Stop looking outside of yourself for
acceptance and you will certainly attract a
life-time soulmate, if this is what you desire,
through The Law of Attraction.
You are ALWAYS attracting to yourself that which is
like you, whether you
are willing to recognize this truth or not. A
relationship is a mirror in which to see your own
reflection. If you don’t like what you are
attracting, it’s time to change!
here you
will find
ADVICE ON HOW TO
Find YOUR Soulmate
&
your-self, SOUL MATE Poems, LOVE LETTERS and more...
Find Your Self and You Will Find Your Soul
Mate...
Preface
Soul Mate Test:
Millions search for a soulmate online every
month. Are you looking for your soul mate? Are you
wondering if the person you are with now is your
soulmate?
If you have to ask, the answer is NO!
Yes, I'm shouting with emphasis! When you are with
your soul mate you will know it. How you ask? Because
YOU are the one You’re
looking for.
How I found my soulmate and my
purpose:
My search for my soul mate began at age
twenty seven, the year my mother's breath went
back to God, on the day she turned forty-seven.
I decided life was too short to live without
passion, and finally mustered up the courage to
admit to my faithful husband of seven
years, my daughter’s father, that I wasn't in
love with him. Ignoring the counsel of my heart
to wait, I said yes to his marriage proposal on the rebound, when
he popped the question at my twenty-first birthday
bash.
I
just couldn't stop carrying a torch for my old high
school sweetheart, even though we hadn't spoken in
seven years. Ours was a fiery, codependent
relationship based on sex and control and was
on-again-off-again for five years. It started when I
was seventeen and persisted until just before I
turned twenty-one, ending without closure. Tracking
him down I called to test the waters and he
admitted that he still loved me too. Convinced we were
soul mates, in no time we were back together. Our
rekindling lasted only a year. When it ended I was
sick inside, punishing myself for repeated mistakes and
wrecked progress. Jobless and destitute in a small
town, I gave sole custody of my then six year old
daughter to her dad and moved in with my father,
seventy five miles away. By
thirty-three I had gone through five more
relationships, and that was just the beginning.
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The short version is that it took more than twenty tries
to find Mr. Right, so needless to say I'm an expert
on the wrong way to
win
a man. Acting the sex-crazed mind blowing teaser who aims to please,
with curves and a smart head for business, just
isn't the magic formula ladies, take it from me.
Every time I wore that mask I lost. I played
a convincing "I can bring home the bacon,
fry it up in a pan,
and never ever let you forget you're a man" kind of
girl because
this
is what I thought men really wanted, but all it got
me was disappointment.
What was my problem? What
was his? Sound familiar?
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Me in
99' with a man I was
convinced was my soulmate... |
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03' - Me &
My Soulmate |
I started
reading the tarot in 1996, desperate to know how a guy I was sleeping with
at the time felt about me. I was hoping to get inside his head,
little aware I was going to get inside my own. Along
with uncovering who I am, I attracted a partner with whom
I'm deeply intimate and share a connection beyond
the worldly.
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I
FINALLY found the acceptance and reverence I craved
by learning to first give it to
myself. Once I started recognizing loss as
an opportunity for growth and better things to
come and vowed to never again to abandon my heart, everything changed! The greatest wisdom I have to share
is this:
Truth is the path
to love,
and the only thing worth
pursuing...
People now
consult me from across the globe concerning
their relationships. The #1 question I'm
asked is, "when will I find my soulmate?"
My answer is always "when you find yourself." The
next question is "how do I find myself" The purpose of this site is to
guide as many seekers as possible to the answer.
Continued here:
how
to find your soulmate & your self
Soulmate Definition:
What is a Soulmate?
There are many opinions about what soul-mates are, and if they even really exist. The
romanticized version is that every person has a soulmate that is their other half in
polarity, from whom they split at the beginning and will one day be reunited
with for eternity. Soulmates are thought to share a
one-of-a-kind love that uplifts and completes. This kind of love with a partner is something everyone hopes
to find.
Definition
of a Soul Mate:
The dictionary defines a soulmate as “one of
two persons compatible with each other in
disposition, point of view, or sensitivity.”
Regardless of your personal beliefs about soulmates, it is possible to attract a partner with
whom you can experience unconditional love and
acceptance.
I know because I found my soul mate, that
soulmate love
far surpasses chemical attraction; it overcomes all duality, role playing,
ego, pride, and superficiality. But you must first discover this kind of love
for your self, and become your own soulmate, before you can and will ever truly
be able to attract and allow yourself to receive
this kind of love from a partner.
ATTRACTING A SOULMATE:
Finding a person committed to loving and accepting you for who you really are, without
condition, requires that you first learn to love and accept your self in this way.
You must give to your self that which you wish to receive.
You must stop
looking outside of yourself for acceptance. Only once you can give to yourself, that which you desire to receive, will you attract
the soulmate you truly desire into
your life, through The Law of Attraction.
Continued here:
how
to find your soulmate & your self
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